Joan had been worried about her father for several months. Ever since her mother passed away he seemed to be like a ship adrift on the sea without a rudder. He seemed aimless, almost lifeless at times. She wanted to help him, but everything she tried to do to support him at his house was met with cynicism, sarcasm, or simply silence. It was frustrating and hurtful at times and she wondered if it wasn’t time to consider assisted living.
She just didn’t want to overstep her bounds.
A lot of people have a difficult time determining when it’s time to bring up the subject of assisted living with an aging parent or other loved one. They don’t want to make a mistake, offend this person, or even encourage them to pursue something that is simply not what they want to.
Joan struggled with this for some time. She wanted her father to be safe and to enjoy life, but she simply realized she was outmatched and unable to help him the way he needed.
There’s no right answer to this question.
Looking up this question may provide a false sense of hope for family members or friends of seniors struggling with their own basic care at home. They might have come to this article hoping that they would get a definitive answer that would assuage their concerns or fears.
There simply is no right answer to the question, but that doesn’t mean it’s time to let this topic go. The best thing anyone can do is learn more about it.
Before bringing up the topic with an aging family member, learn more about assisted living. Learn about the facilities. Take a tour. See what modern assisted living is all about.
Speak to administrators or other staff members, if permitted. Also, if permitted, speak to some of the residents there. Find out their perspectives, what they enjoy doing on a regular basis, and what their family or friends have said to get them thinking about this for their future.
The more prepared you are when stepping into a conversation like this, the easier it’s going to be to keep it positive, help the senior focus on the realities rather than the misconceptions, and understand it might take some time to convince him or her to at least consider this for their future.
If a senior is struggling with their own basic care, seems unsafe at times at home, feels lonely and isolated, then those are all great reasons to begin talking about assisted living.
For more information about Pipestone Place Assisted Living in San Antonio, TX or to take a tour, call today (210) 718-0211.
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